FAQs

1) Make sure it’s what you really want to do and you’re emotionally and mentally ready. Do it with someone you trust and feel safe with.

2) Choose the right setting. Consider dim lighting and soft music.

3) Don’t rush the foreplay. Spend time kissing and touching to increase intimacy and comfort.

4) Use lubricant to make things wetter and more pleasurable 

5) Practice safe sex

6. If there’s pain, it usually means you need more lubrication, relaxation and arousal

6) Finally, it’s normal for things not to go perfectly, especially the first time. Be patient with yourselves, and focus on the experience rather than perfection.

Many virgins don’t bleed. Some don’t bleed until later. Bleeding is not a yardstick of virginity.