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Hello Elizabeth, I feel like I have more pleasure and more satisfaction when touching myself than when having sex. Is that normal and what is the cause of it?

Category: Masturbation

My answer – It is normal. You know your body better and you know the techniques and rhythm that works for you. Maybe it’s the way you touch your clits or finger yourself? To bridge the gap, you might want to explore how to bring what you enjoy when you touch yourself into your sexual experiences with your partner.

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Hi Elizabeth, I haven’t had sex for a long time and I’m single. I usually help myself by masturbating but whenever I’m done I usually feel guilty because of the Christian beliefs about masturbating but that’s the only way plus I don’t want to get involved with any man who isn’t ready to be serious but each time I help myself I can’t help but feel guilty. I even went two months without touching myself lol and I’m back at it now because horniness wan kill me.

Category: Masturbation

You’re experiencing COGNITIVE DISSONANCE. Your Christian beliefs don’t align with your desire for pleasure. I don’t like to talk about this but I would say a few things. Masturbation is a common behavior that many people engage in. Focus on the pleasure you enjoy rather than the shame associated with it. If you don’t want to do it, you can find other ways to release your sexual tension through exercises, or engaging in hobbies to keep your mind occupied.