FAQs

What do I think about anal? As a sex educator and sex writer, I have written a lot about anal sex so I know that the anus is packed with loads of nerve endings. Anal sex can be very pleasurable and there are some benefits to it. 

Now, anal sex requires a lot of warmup, foreplay and relaxation. You can’t just jump into anal like vaginal sex. When done right, anal sex should be painless. First things first, you need to DOUCHE to clean out your anus of ‘feces’ at least 2 hours before anal. 

To enjoy anal, your mind and body needs to be relaxed. You want to start with lots of foreplay on other parts of the body. Then massage the butt cheeks and the butt crack. You’re going to need lots of lube, particularly silicone-based lube. Start penetration with the pinky finger. And then a thumb. Insert and then remove, insert again and remove. Later, you’ll be able to go in with 2 fingers. Take your time. 

When you’re ready to penetrate, don’t go deep too soon. Anal sex can be more enjoyable with a smaller penis than with a bigger one. 

You can’t get pregnant from anal sex and you need condoms because the anus is filled with a lot of bad bacteria.