If you’re wondering how to spice things up in bed but feel shy or a little awkward, you’re not alone and yes, it’s absolutely doable. Here’s how to spice things up in bed, even if you’re not the most confident in the bedroom (yet).

Start small. A little bit of red wine can help calm your nerves and boost your confidence. You can also send him a flirty or naughty text message during the day to build sexual tension and anticipation.

Here are more fun ways to spice things up in bed:

• Try sex with the lights dim or off.
• Use a blindfold or soft restraints.
• Talk dirty to him (e.g., “I love how your dick feels in me,” “You turn me on so bad”).
• Get my Blowjob eBook and learn how to make him moan with your mouth.
• Moan during sex, let him know you’re into it.
• Tease him with kisses, play with his nipples, and whisper naughty things in his ear.
• Give him a sensual massage using baby oil.
• Grab him during sex and actively participate don’t just lie there.
• Experiment with roleplay (nurse, maid, boss, you name it!).

Remember, the more you explore, the better you’ll get. The key to learning how to spice things up in bed is to relax, be playful, and enjoy the moment. Confidence grows with time and experience.