Foreplay tips aren’t just warm-ups—they’re the main event for 75% of women who need them to reach orgasm. When done right, foreplay transforms good sex into unforgettable intimacy, making her shiver, crave, and yes—drip. This guide blends neuroscience, sensory psychology, and real-world techniques to awaken her entire body. 

If you want to spice things up in bed, here are some hot foreplay tips that will drive her crazy in bed and leave both of you begging for more.

Why Foreplay Tips Matter More Than You Think

Foreplay isn’t “pre-sex.” It’s a neurological ignition switch:

Blood flow surges to erogenous zones, boosting sensitivity and natural lubrication.

Dopamine and oxytocin flood the brain, forging emotional bonds and intense pleasure.

Women’s arousal is sense-driven—touch, smell, sound—and requires patience to activate.
Skipping foreplay? You’re serving a five-star meal without the appetizer

Start foreplay outside the bedroom

Sext strategically: Send midday texts like “I can’t stop imagining the taste of you tonight…” to prime her mind.

Touch teasingly: Rest your hand on her thigh during dinner, or whisper what you’ll do to her later while grocery shopping.

Psychological hack: Anticipation releases dopamine—making her physically ache for your touch.

Foreplay is not just physical. It can be emotional too. Treat her nice outside the bedroom not just because you want sex. Take her out on a date, send her money, buy her a thoughtful gift. Do whatever you can to make her feel really loved and wanted. Send her a naughty text during the day or when she least expects it to build her anticipation.

Create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere

Declutter: A messy room spikes cortisol (stress hormone), killing arousal. Spend 10 minutes tidying.

Set the mood: Dim lights, light sandalwood candles (masculine scents heighten female arousal), and play low-BPM music like The Weekend.

Pro tip: Silence phones! Distractions sabotage connection. 

If she doesn’t feel safe and comfortable with you, nothing you do will work. She’ll end up faking everything from her laughs to her moans to her orgasm. Make sure your room is tidy and clean. Put on a sex playlist. Give her a gentle massage to help her unwind. All these can help her feel very relaxed and safe.

Set the mood with red wine

Science-backed sip: Pinot Noir boosts blood flow to erogenous zones and contains quercetin, which elevates testosterone.

Pairing ritual: Feed her dark chocolate-covered strawberries between sips—cocoa phenylethylamine mimics arousal chemicals

A glass of red wine before sex will work wonders. It can help increase her sexual arousal and put her in the mood. It can also help her loosen up a bit. But remember- moderation is the key. 

Compliment her body and build her confidence

Avoid generic praise: Instead of “You’re hot,” try “The way your hips move in that dress is art” .

Body part worship: “I dream about the curve where your waist meets your thighs”—specificity validates her unique beauty.

Key insight: 81.5% of women feel more aroused when their breasts/body are admired during foreplay

Make her feel like the queen she is. This can help her to become more confident and less body conscious during sex. Do this often, not just a few minutes before sex.

Undress Her Like Unwrapping Treasure

The Slow Reveal: Remove one clothing item every 5 minutes. Kiss each exposed area—collarbone, shoulder, hip crease.

Command her: “Take off your dress slowly. Make me watch.” Power exchange spikes adrenaline.

Never: Fumble with bras. Practice clasps beforehand!

When it’s time to undress her, don’t rush. As you undress her, gently caress her body and offer sincere compliments to make her feel sexy and wanted.

Talk dirty to her

The “Anticipation Builder”: “I’m going to tease you so slowly, you’ll beg me to stop. But I won’t.” 

Tone rules: Drop your voice to a growl. Whisper directly into her ear—sound vibrations trigger goosebumps.

Avoid: Asking “Do you like this?” Replace with “You’re dripping for me already, aren’t you?”

Let her know how much you want her. This alone is enough to make her wet and wild for you. Words have the power to turn up the heat in the bedroom. Whisper it in her ears. She’ll melt right away. You can say words like

‘You make me so hard’

‘I love your boobs’

‘I love the way you taste’

‘I can’t wait to be inside of you’ ‘You’re so wet’

‘I can’t get over your body’ , etc to ignite her passion.

Kiss her everywhere with passion

The Neck: Lick the pulse point, then blow gently—temperature contrast induces shivers.

Inner Thighs: Kiss upward from her knees, stopping just before her vulva. Repeat.

Ears: Suck the lobe, then trace her ear’s outer ridge with your tongue tip.

Kissing isn’t just about lips—it’s about building intimacy and excitement. Start with a gentle kiss on her forehead, then move to her cheeks, ears, and finally her lips. Kiss her passionately and intensely. Kiss her like you mean it. Kiss her like you desperately want her. When the kiss is good, the sex would most likely be good too. Then move to her neck and then to her boobs. Don’t begin sucking it yet. Just kiss it. Kiss her nipples. Kiss her stomach all the way down to her pussy. At this point, she should be begging you to put it in. 

Caress her breasts not just her nipples

Nipples are last: Spend 10+ minutes massaging breast sides and under-curves first.

Areola focus: Circle the dark outer ring clockwise with your thumb—nerve density here outpaces nipples.

Temperature play: Run an ice cube around her breasts, then replace your mouth for a warming contrast.

The nipples are only one part of her breast. Don’t ignore the rest of her boobs. Kiss, suck, lick and play with them. Squeeze them gently too. 

Use a blindfold on her

Heighten touch: Tie a silk scarf over her eyes. Trace her body with feathers, ice, or a warm massage candle.

Earplugs combo: Block sight and sound—touch becomes electrifying.

Psychological edge: Uncertainty magnifies pleasure by 73%

Covering her eyes with a blindfold will make every touch and kiss more intense. Whisper in her ears what you’re going to do to her body. This will take her arousal from zero to 100.

Try ice play

Technique: Hold an ice cube in your mouth while kissing down her stomach. The drip onto her clit combined with cold contact makes hips buck.

Advanced move: Freeze grapes. Roll them over her nipples before taking them into your mouth.

Take an ice cube and run it along her neck, arms, stomach, and thighs, teasing her sensitive spots. You can also place the ice in your mouth and kiss her, using the cold sensations to drive her wild. The cold sensations will send shivers down her spine. It’s an unforgettable feeling. 

Eat her pussy like her ex is watching:

The “Ex Is Watching” Mindset: Channel competitive energy—“I’ll make her scream louder than he ever did” 1.

Build tension: Breathe hot air onto her clit for 10 seconds before licking. Tease the inner labia with feather-light touches 18.

The “AL” Technique: Flat-tongue Ascending strokes + focused Licks on the clit hood.

Don’t treat this as just foreplay. Treat it as the main event. Lick her like a dripping ice cream cone. This will have her moaning your name.

Sensual Massage Mastery

Warm coconut oil + fingertip spirals on her lower back. 87% of women report increased wetness from lower-body focus .

 Edging Her to Madness

Bring her 90% to orgasm → stop → repeat. Delayed climaxes intensify wetness .

Mirror Seduction

Stand behind her facing a mirror: “Watch yourself come undone.” Visual feedback doubles arousal.

⚡ Why These Foreplay Tips Rewire Her Brain

Foreplay tips are the sculptor’s tools—they don’t just reveal arousal; they carve it into existence.

Your Foreplay Tips Checklist:

Started foreplay 3+ hours pre-bedroom ☑️

Complimented 3 body parts specifically ☑️

Used temperature play (ice/wine) ☑️

Blindfolded + delayed oral for 10 mins ☑️

Final Move: Post-sex, trace her hip crease with one finger—this triggers aftershock orgasms in 41% of women .

These foreplay tips won’t just make her drip—they’ll rewrite your intimacy blueprint.

Would you be trying out these tips tonight?