Let’s be honest. Riding is not as easy as it looks in the movies. Your thighs start burning, you get tired too quickly, and sometimes, you are just not sure if you are doing it right. But when done well, riding can be one of the sexiest and most pleasurable positions for both you and your partner.
If you want to last longer, move better, and take control in bed, this guide is for you.
1. Find a Comfortable Position
Not all riding positions are the same, so choose one that works for you.
• Classic Cowgirl: You sit upright on top, controlling the movement. This is great for deep penetration and eye contact.
• Reverse Cowgirl: You face away from him. This gives him a great view and lets you control the rhythm without too much pressure on your thighs.
• Frog Position: You squat on top of him. This one is intense and great for a deep, bouncy motion, but it requires strong leg muscles.
• Laid-Back Ride: Instead of sitting straight up, lean forward or place your hands on his chest for support. This helps reduce strain on your legs while still keeping control.
• Face-off Cowgirl: The man sits on the edge of the bed or in a chair while you straddles him, face to face.
• The Hot Seat: The man sits on a chair while you straddles him—facing away.
The key is to find a position that feels natural and comfortable so you can last longer without getting tired too quickly.
2. Start Slow and Build Up
Riding is not just about bouncing up and down. Take your time. Start with slow, deep movements to build anticipation. Rock your hips in circular or back-and-forth motions instead of just going up and down. This keeps the pleasure going without wearing you out too fast.
3. Engage Your Core, Not Just Your Thighs
The reason a lot of women get tired quickly is because they rely too much on their thighs. Instead of using only your legs, engage your core and hips. Imagine you are rolling your waist like you would when dancing. This reduces strain on your legs and makes your movements smoother.
4. Use Your Hands for Balance
If you feel unstable, use your hands for support. You can hold onto his chest, his shoulders, or even place your hands on the bed for extra balance. This helps you stay in control without losing your rhythm.
5. Adjust the Angle for Maximum Pleasure
Everyone’s body is different, so experiment with angles to find what feels best for you. Tilting your hips forward or backward can make a huge difference in hitting the right spots, especially if you want more clitoral stimulation.
6. Let Him Help
You do not have to do all the work alone. Let him thrust up into you or hold your waist to guide your movements. Teamwork makes the dream work.
7. Add Some Sensual Touches
• Run your hands over his chest or scratch lightly.
• Make eye contact and bite your lip to keep things sexy.
• Play with your own body. Touch your breasts or rub your clit for extra stimulation.
Confidence and sensuality make riding even hotter.
8. Do Not Forget to Breathe
Holding your breath while focusing on movement can make you tired faster. Breathe deeply, relax, and go at a pace that feels good for both of you.
9. Switch It Up
If your legs start burning, switch positions before you get too exhausted. Go from cowgirl to laying on his chest or transition into another position that lets you rest for a bit before continuing.
10. Confidence is Everything
The sexiest thing about riding is not just the movement—it is your confidence. Own it. Take charge. Do not overthink it. The more comfortable you feel, the better it will be for both of you.
Riding does not have to be stressful. With the right techniques, confidence, and a little practice, you can ride like a stallion and enjoy every moment of it. The key is to find what works for your body, move at your own pace, and most importantly, have fun with it.
Leave a Reply