A lot of women assume that men are easy to please in bed. Just give them your pussy and they are satisfied. But the truth is, men have desires too, and if you want to blow his mind in bed, you need to go beyond the basics.
Here are some things most men secretly wish you would do in bed.
1. He Wants You to Initiate Sex More Often
Sometimes, just walk up to him, and whisper, “I need you” or try sending him a naughty text or a sexy picture while he’s at work so he knows what to expect when you meet up. Men love when you’re the one who starts things.
2. He Wants You to Take Control Sometimes
Men love being in charge, but that doesn’t mean they always want to do the work. Every now and then, flip the script.
🔥 Push him onto the bed and climb on top
🔥 Pin his hands down and whisper, “Don’t move”
🔥 Kiss him like you can’t get enough
The moment you take control and make him feel wanted, he will go crazy.
3. Talk Dirty to Him
Moaning is great but words? Words can make him lose his mind. Tell him exactly how good he feels inside you, call him “daddy” if he’s into that, or tell him how much you’ve been thinking about him all day. Something as simple as “I love how you feel inside me” or “I can’t get enough of you” can make him lose control.
4. Play With His Body (Not Just His Dick!)
His penis is not the only pleasure point on his body. There are so many other sensitive areas that will have him shivering if you touch them right.
Try this: kiss and lick his ears, trace your tongue down his neck, run your nails across his thighs, suck on his nipples (yes, men have sensitive nipples too!), or gently stroke his perineum (the area between his balls and anus). Trust me, he would never forget you for life.
5. Ride Him With Confidence
When you are on top, own it. Do not just sit there and expect him to do all the work. Move your hips, lean in, make eye contact, kiss him and let him see how much you’re enjoying yourself. Confidence is sexy, and the more into it you are, the more turned on he will be.
6. Give Him More BJs
Let’s be honest. Most men love getting head, and they never get tired of it. It’s a turn-on for him when you enjoy sucking his dick. If you want to drive him crazy, go down on him without him asking.
Tips to drive him crazy:
👅 Use your tongue on the tip before going deep.
💦 Make it sloppy – the wetter, the better.
🥵 Moan while you do it (the vibrations feel amazing).
🔥 Look up at him while you take him in your mouth.
And if you let him cum in your mouth (only if you’re okay with it), just know he will love you forever.
7. Use Your Hands More
During sex, do not just lie there and take his dick. Touch him, grab his waist, grab his ass, run your hands down his back, or hold his arms. These small gestures make the experience more intense and passionate for him.
8. He Wants You to Surprise Him
Routine sex can get boring so, switch things up!
🔥 Wake him up with a blowjob
🔥 Join him in the shower
🔥 Wear a sexy lingerie for him
The element of surprise makes everything hotter.
9. He Wants to See You Touch Yourself
Most men are visual creatures—they get turned on by watching. If you really want to turn him on, let him watch you play with yourself.
You can:
🔥 Run your hands over your body
🔥 Slowly take off your clothes while holding eye contact
🔥 Touch yourself and moan his name.
It’s one of the sexiest things you can do for him.
10. Show Affection After Sex
After sex, don’t just roll over and fall asleep or start scrolling on your phone. Hold him, rub his head, kiss his neck, or whisper, “That was amazing.” It will make him feel appreciated and connected to you.
Men may not always say it, but they want effort, excitement, and connection in bed too. The key is to be confident, take initiative, and enjoy the moment. When you bring enthusiasm and creativity, he will always be excited to be with you.
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